Hey everyone! It is now, what I like to call, the month of love. February holds this special little day called, “Valentines day”, ever hear of it? On this day, we are suppose to treat our significant other to something to show our love. I am a lover of any holiday, especially a cheesy/lovey one where I get to spoil my husband, and to be honest I love being spoiled in return (I am human and what girl wouldn’t?)
What if I asked you to do a challenge that involves five dates? One that might help carry those Valentines day vibes from one day to another. One thing I pride in, is Seth and I’s relationship. Not because we are perfect or because I think our relationship is better than others, but because it is real and we are authentic. We make sure to establish a night specifically for us two each week. One that is away from the farm or any other responsibilities. Why? Because we need it. It is crucial for us. Sometimes, when we are watching our budget, it is as simple as working out together or talking over coffee. It doesn’t have to cost a $100. It just involves you taking time out of your schedule and showing up for your person. Things that function well, takes time to build. It also needs “maintenance” work. To have a successful relationship, you need to put in the work to keep it thriving. Never put your relationship on the back burner.
So, welcome to, “The Five Dates Challenge.” Each week of February there will be a date night (plus one in March), so if you have kids, that means finding a sitter. If you are on a budget and can’t afford a sitter, swap kids with another family. Meaning, take their kids for a night, so they can go out and then they can take your kids so you can go out.
The Challenge Explained:
The five dates, will be split up like this: Two dates chosen by the wife. Two dates chosen by the husband. One date chosen together.
Each has two days, one date for something you picked because it is something you want to do and another you pick because you know your spouse would love it, even if you do not.
Then, switch.
After the first four dates, you then pick something together. This can be anything you want it to be, as long as you decide together.
Rules for Date Nights:
1. No phones for at least an hour of it. If you only have an hour, still no phone. Talk to each other.
2. Try and be spontaneous.
3. No friends or family. This is about spending time with each other.
4. Get far away from responsibilities that could be distracting.
I hope you all enjoy this challenge. I hope it is a start of a trend in your relationship and it gives it the little spark you were looking for. Have fun dating! 🙂
Much love,
Kylie
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